Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
April 16
Monday, April 19, 2010
April 15
April 14
Sunday, April 18, 2010
April 13
A recap of my recent read: The Happiness Project: or why I spent a Year trying to Sing in the Morning, Clean my Closets, Fight Right, Read Aristotle, and Generally Have More Fun by Gretchen Rubin.
I can't decide if I am ultra annoyed by this book, or if it resonated with me a little. I think the fact that I can't definitavely say that I enjoyed it, means I really didn't. If I have to question my enjoyment, I probably didn't like it that much. I've read a few happy books from time to time. One that comes to memory is The Geography of Bliss: One Grump's Search for the Happiest Places in the World by Eric Weiner. I do recommend that one because if nothing else, it is a fantastic travelogue and geography eye opener, but back to the book at hand.
As someone who has struggled with clinical depression and post partum depression many times throughout my life, I guess it is a topic that peaks my interest. I used to be very hush hush about my depression, but I needed a support and a network, and now I talk very freely about it. I love my medication, but I also do my part (I'm an exercise Nazi because I get natural endorphins, and I don't expect meds to solve any of my problems - but you'll never convert me to therapy.) I think that depression is a very personal issue, and you can deal with it however it works for you. I say just do whatever works for you. I've managed to figure out what works for me thankfully and that's that, but back to the book at hand. (I keep dodging the book - I guess it really bugged me.)
This book recounted a year long happiness project that this highly educated ultra talented lady embarked on. You can check out her website here: http://www.happiness-project.com/ She didn't pick extreme things (like moving to a foreign country); instead, she tried to make little daily changes that could impact her for the better. While I like many of her ideas, most of the book reads like a gigantic bragging session to me. "O look what Gretchen can do....." All in all, while I find her admirable, and I think I'd really like her in person, and I'd ultimately love to count her as one of my friends in real life, and I'm very impressed with her accomplishments...... she left a bad aftertaste in my mouth. I couldn't help feeling like I could never measure up to her happiness standards, and instead of inspiring me, I felt like a dud of a person. I'm not sure if it was really the book that made me feel this way, or if it is just my negative nature....but that's my take on it. I do like many of her ideas. She set out twelve personal commandments for herself. (1. Be Gretchen 2. Let it go 3. Act the Way I want to feel 4. Do it now...etc...) I really like this idea and her first commandment really resonated with me. "Be Debby." Easy, simple, good advice. Instead of pretending there are things I enjoy or trying to make myself into a carbon copy clone of everyone on the block - just be me. I think I am happy when I am unabashadly Debby....but that doesn't mean just being me will make me happy. You still have to coexist with society, and since most of the activities I enjoy are solo - I have to push myself to interact with others. and try to appreciate their interests also - (This is the ultimate introvert in me talking here.) I think my main beef with this book is that I am a perfectionist and I just don't think her strategies would pan out for me. I have tried projects like this before - (you should check out some of my books of New Year's Resolutions.) In the end, endeavors like this tended to make me more unhappy because I never measured up enough in my eyes. I've found sometimes just BEING instead of STRIVING have made me personally happier. I could go on and on this topic, but I'm afraid I have a child stuck under the recliner, I better go! To happiness!
I can't decide if I am ultra annoyed by this book, or if it resonated with me a little. I think the fact that I can't definitavely say that I enjoyed it, means I really didn't. If I have to question my enjoyment, I probably didn't like it that much. I've read a few happy books from time to time. One that comes to memory is The Geography of Bliss: One Grump's Search for the Happiest Places in the World by Eric Weiner. I do recommend that one because if nothing else, it is a fantastic travelogue and geography eye opener, but back to the book at hand.
As someone who has struggled with clinical depression and post partum depression many times throughout my life, I guess it is a topic that peaks my interest. I used to be very hush hush about my depression, but I needed a support and a network, and now I talk very freely about it. I love my medication, but I also do my part (I'm an exercise Nazi because I get natural endorphins, and I don't expect meds to solve any of my problems - but you'll never convert me to therapy.) I think that depression is a very personal issue, and you can deal with it however it works for you. I say just do whatever works for you. I've managed to figure out what works for me thankfully and that's that, but back to the book at hand. (I keep dodging the book - I guess it really bugged me.)
This book recounted a year long happiness project that this highly educated ultra talented lady embarked on. You can check out her website here: http://www.happiness-project.com/ She didn't pick extreme things (like moving to a foreign country); instead, she tried to make little daily changes that could impact her for the better. While I like many of her ideas, most of the book reads like a gigantic bragging session to me. "O look what Gretchen can do....." All in all, while I find her admirable, and I think I'd really like her in person, and I'd ultimately love to count her as one of my friends in real life, and I'm very impressed with her accomplishments...... she left a bad aftertaste in my mouth. I couldn't help feeling like I could never measure up to her happiness standards, and instead of inspiring me, I felt like a dud of a person. I'm not sure if it was really the book that made me feel this way, or if it is just my negative nature....but that's my take on it. I do like many of her ideas. She set out twelve personal commandments for herself. (1. Be Gretchen 2. Let it go 3. Act the Way I want to feel 4. Do it now...etc...) I really like this idea and her first commandment really resonated with me. "Be Debby." Easy, simple, good advice. Instead of pretending there are things I enjoy or trying to make myself into a carbon copy clone of everyone on the block - just be me. I think I am happy when I am unabashadly Debby....but that doesn't mean just being me will make me happy. You still have to coexist with society, and since most of the activities I enjoy are solo - I have to push myself to interact with others. and try to appreciate their interests also - (This is the ultimate introvert in me talking here.) I think my main beef with this book is that I am a perfectionist and I just don't think her strategies would pan out for me. I have tried projects like this before - (you should check out some of my books of New Year's Resolutions.) In the end, endeavors like this tended to make me more unhappy because I never measured up enough in my eyes. I've found sometimes just BEING instead of STRIVING have made me personally happier. I could go on and on this topic, but I'm afraid I have a child stuck under the recliner, I better go! To happiness!
Saturday, April 17, 2010
April 12
April 11
April 10
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
April 9
April 8
A smattering of pictures from our spontaneous trip to Baby Animal Days. Candy Cannons, pony rides, treasure hunts, baby bears from Bear World, baby animals galore, trains, and sunshine made this a super fun day! We finished at closing time with sunburned faces. We then headed in town to have dinner with Grandma Cook. YUM! I also got to see an a high school buddy who lives by Grandma. So fun to catch up with her and her darling boys! I think this event is calling my name as tradition.........................................
Monday, April 12, 2010
April 7
5. You'll give people something new to say about California, besides its the state of fruits and nuts! 4. You're entymologist friends will think you've learned how to cook. 3. "Tastes like chicken" will have new meaning 2. You don't have to drink a whole bottle of Mezcal to get to the worm. 1. Larvets make great party food. )
Sunday, April 11, 2010
April 6
April 5
One of the things I have loved about my kids getting older, is that I get to read bigger books with them! Yahoo!!!! This is the last book that Cade and I read together. It is called the Invention of Hugo Cabret by Brain Selznick. I absolutely adored it. A few stats on this book: 511 PAGES! (Yes that is correct.) It is 26,159 WORDS.....and it has 158 PICTURES. It looks like a massively huge Harry Potter novel. It is a much easier read, though. It is very loosely a historical fiction (with lots of liberty taken) about a French filmmaker namedGeorges Mieles and two new invented sidekicks. The book starts out with 45 pages of pictures, and then you get to the first text. The art is simple, engaging, and delightful black and white sketch art. It made me feel like I was watching an old black and white movie. I enjoyed reading this book, and it even appealed to the five year old of the house. It was such a fun read! My favorite part was the Credits in the back of the book with links to websites and books to learn more about the history and research the author did for this book. Thanks to Eric for randomly picking this book up from the library and giving us all a delightful little family read. April 4
Sunday, April 4, 2010
April 2
I actually dyed some Easter Eggs this year! Sad to say, but this might be the first time I have actually done that with my kids. It is always just seems too messy, but I broke down and did it this year. Eric boiled the eggs about a week ago, and I finally got around to dying them. The kids were going crazy, and so we did something fun. I let them color the eggs, and then pick which colors to dip them into, but I did all the dipping. It went off smoothly. Not a spill of vinegar staining dye anywhere, and 12 beautiful eggs we later cracked open and ate with salt. I might just have to try dying the eggs again.
April 1
March 30, 2010
Holy Smokes! I can't believe it is time already. I had to register Cade for Kindergarten this week. Yikes! We enjoyed the short walk to Bluffridge to turn in half the paperwork. (Mom still hasn't got the immunizations done, yet....those come next Tuesday.) The Kindergarten here is year round. I'm not sure how I feel about that. There are four tracks, and three of them start mid-July! There goes half the summer camp enrichments I had planned to send Cade to. There is a chance he might go to another school. I entered him in a lottery for a charter school equidistant from our house. I love the idea that it has uniforms and traditional school year, but we probably won't get in. I am excited for Cade. I'm afraid I won't shed a tear when he goes to Kindergarten. I'm one of those cold-hearted moms, I guess. I love my children, but I honestly love watching them grow and mature and become hopefully more independent. Anyhow, when we went to register Cade I saw this huge welcome sign and the mascot of the buffalo greeted us. I thought he'd love the buffalo. Instead - he turns around and looks on the wall behind us at some pictures of George Washington and Ben Franklin and just can't contain himself. He was so excited about the pictures of the signing of the Declaration of Independence, etc. etc. etc. So while the ten or so other kids registering oogled over the Buffalo, Cade delved into his money talk inspired by the pictures. My little money man is obsessed with coins and bills and who is on what bill and I think I may have a little accountant on my hand. I suppose it isn't all bad, he is learning a lot about history and numbers, but I'm afraid if I get asked one more time, "What do 13 nickels and 4 dimes and 2 half dollars make? And which President is on the Silver Dollar? And How many weeks will it take me to earn a Ben Franklin dollar bill?" I just might lose it!
Friday, April 2, 2010
March 29, 2010
March 28, 2010
March 27, 2010
Saturdays are never laid back for me. They always seem to be busy. This Sat. was no exception. I started at the gym, then came home, ran Cade to a preschool special Saturday Class Drums around the World. Then, I went to Staples to spend a gift card thing that expired in March, and then I went home briefly. Then I drove to West Haven for a reshearsal for Popera - our latest musical performance coming up next month. It should be interesting.....I'm singing baritone on many songs, and the songs are things like Living On A Prayer, Can't Buy Me Love, and Bohemian Rhapsody all sung madrigally/operatically. Anyhow - then I had to teach piano and then we had a baptism in our ward for some older children. After all this, I was getting ready to hunker down and watch some TV and eat a big bowl of popcorn. Instead, my friend Suzie kidnapped me and took me out on a much needed girl's night out. I was exhausted, but it was fun all the same. We ate pizza and watched the Blind Side. I'm not a big fan of sports feel good movies, but this one was okay. I'll give it that much. When I got home at 11:30 I found we were out of TeePee. So....I made a mad dash to Smiths. Grocery stores crack me up at 11:45 p.m. on a Saturday night around here. I walked into a bustling store where everyone was hurrying and scurrying. At 11:55 there were at LEAST a dozen people in front of me in the only open checkstand. I broke the Sabbath by checking out at 12:01. (For Shame!) I was the last person, and the store was now a ghost town. At least we got our TeePee.
Thursday, April 1, 2010
March 26, 2010
Eyebrow Threading. On impulse, I was at the mall spending a birthday gift certificate and I saw this lady in a booth wearing her country's traditional outfit, and a sign advertising eyebrow threading. I stopped and got this massive handout paper touting the benefits of eyebrow threading vs. waxing. Now, I could really care less about all the supposed "benefits." I've had my brows sugared, plucked, waxed. I will use anything - whatever works - as long as it takes the hair away. The biggest benefit that I saw to threading is that I was somewhere without my kids for a few minutes. There was a big comfy chair in front of me, a lady willing to pamper me, the price wasn't too exhorbitant, and I didn't have to wait in any line or make any appointment. I decided to have my eyebrows threaded. Never again. If you are wondering if you should try it - I will save you the pain and the money. It was supposed to be less painful than waxing. Okay....no! I practically fall asleep getting my brows waxed. I don't wince hardly at all with waxing and plucking. I've even bled and had red lids for hours afterwards and that didn't bother me that much. Threading nearly brought me to tears. It was pretty painful. Especially when I added the upper lip to the mix. It hurt. It was supposed to last longer than waxing. Well, it has been a week and I already look worse than I do a month after a wax job. Grrr. So in case anyone was contemplating eyebrow threading - go ahead and try it, but I'd recommend just staying at home and trying it yourself with some dental floss. Much cheaper - and probably just as effective.
March 25, 2010
Seasons change, and with that, I have this weird cutout that I can't decide if I loathe or like. I have been swapping out the contents every month or so. This is incredibly unusual for me. I am the kind of person who puts a picture up, and puts the couch in the corner, and it could stay that way for 12 years and I would be perfectly happy. I don't do change very well, but I do like to celebrate or recognize holidays. So, I spent the bulk of this day tracking down Easter decorations. I pulled the lillies from the basement and put them in my Christmas vase. I found this Charlton Heston Bible Book at Savers (thrift shop) for a dollar, and opened it to this Raphael painting of the Savior talking to his apostles. I found a cup that says Redeemer and has the tomb and the weeping women on it for 80 cents at Hobby Lobby. Then, I splurged. I spent ten bucks for a vinyl sign that says "He Lives." I've had all these vinyl signs I got for a dollar or less at garage sales this summer, but none of them had Eastery sayings, so I splurged. I went to the mall and twenty minutes later I got my sign. So whalllaaa. Happy Easter. I'm afraid I'm decora-bored out. I don't know if I'll be changing this up until the Fourth of July.
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